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Ms Parker in Korea!: January 2007

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Sunday, January 28, 2007

In Jodhpur

Before I came to India, I'll have to admit that the second half of the tour (when Karen and I would be on our own) was the one that worried me the most. What would we do without the protection and organization of Shailendra, our guide, and the group?

Well, we certainly didn't have to worry - everything seems to be falling neatly into place. Shailendra helped us book a place to stay in Jodhpur as well as an early morning bus ticket (more on that later...), then at the hotel in Jodhpur, we met up with a lady who owns a guesthouse in Jaisalmer, and she told us about the upcoming Desert Festival. So.... on Jan 31 and Feb 1, I plan to be watching camel races in the desert. You know, unless something else comes up (we will do the rat temple between Jodhpur and Jaisalmer, for those of you who are keeping track). At any rate, we've been taken care of by fate or destiny or whatever and, though we have no set plans for post-Jaisalmer, we are sure that it will figure itself out.

So... right... the bus from Pushkar to Jodhpur was... shall we say "an adventure". First of all, we were awoken by the "boy"*, Omi, at 4:45 am. He also brought us some chai. Then, Omi walked with us to find a rickshaw to carry our bags, then we all walked to the bus terminal (well... maybe I could call it a dusty clearing between some buildings, 3 chai wallahs and 4 vegetable carts where buses tend to stop, not exactly a bus station) together, where he bought us more chai before putting us on the world's oldest bus. I swear it was held together with not much more than faith. (Where do old buses go to die? India.)

The ensuing 6-hour journey was rattley, bumpy and generally bone-jarring, to say the least. Being a local bus, we stopped at every single village, shack or tree in the desert to pick up women in fluorescent bright sarees, men in coloured turbans and sombre, dark-eyed children. No goats or chickens, I'm afraid. Needless to say, Karen and I stuck out a bit (because we weren't wearing orange, green and pink sarees, I guess). About 90 minutes into this trip, we stopped at a chai wallah. Karen and I hopped off, bought chai and lit up our cigarettes, then turned to face every single Indian who had been within a 40-metre radius, standing in a semi-circle, just watching us with friendly, curious expressions. A few brave 6-year olds tried a tentative "hello", before running to a safe distance away from us. Then, the bus honked, started up its engines and started rolling away! We had to run for it, without spilling our precious chai.

Back on the bus, an old woman in front of us opened the window and spat, sending her spittle back onto Karen's arm! This garnered us some sympathy from three men seated around us, one of which offered me some kind of weird paan masala to chew on. Yes, fine, don't accept odd coloured powders from strange men on buses, but you know... it was okay, but a bit like chewing on incense. Not that I chew incense that much anymore.

Right, so then we're on the bus and it stops in yet another small town. This time, a guy with a tray full of mysterious donut-like objects got on. One of the other men bought us one, it was an "onion something or other". Breaking the universal "Don't eat street meat in India" law, we dug in. Delicious.

As we rocked and rolled along, the bus driver made sure that his rather musical horn worked by testing it every 5 - 10 feet or so. For those of you who have already visited India, you understand that horns are blared from the moment the key goes in the ignition.

Right.. what else? Oh yeah. Then the windshield exploded. Or, like, shattered, like, right in front of the bus driver. In a surprising feat of driving talent, he managed to keep us on the road AND stop safely while dodging flying bits of glass. Another guy got on the front fender, broke out the rest of the windshield, and somehow fixed it all up with... uh... a sheet of plastic and sarees? I really have no idea.

We finally arrived in Jodhpur, were saved by the Mayor of Pushkar (the one who bought us our snack), got to our hotel, ate and are now wandering around the Jodhpur spice market after having enjoyed a delectable saffron lassi.

But, you know, other than that, nothing much to say I guess.

*boy: Whether he is 6 or 60, he is a "boy" - porter, bellboy, servant (in the past) whatever. He's an employee of a hotel, store or other business who runs errands, gets chai, and is absolutely indispensible. Karen and I have had some very memorable "boys" here.

Thursday, January 25, 2007

In Pushkar

This is the first town I've been to in the past week that has the infrastructure or ability to have a working internet connection. But the things that we've done and the things that we've seen!

If you look at the description of our tour on the website, it seems to warn the clients that things will be "rustic" at best. So far, we have stayed in a fort, 2 palaces and a luxurious tent by the side of a lake. Every hotel greets us with red bindis and flower garlands (today's was made of roses). This is definitely "The Princess Tour". The hot water may be touch and go, but the service and accommodations are always excellent.

But, before you imagine us living apart from the "real India", just note that most of the places we have visited so far are rather remote and not usually accessible by the normal tourist crowd (except Pushkar, Delhi, Agra and Jaipur). Anyone else been to Bundi or Madhogarh? Yeah, didn't think so.

Because of the "ethical tourism" stance of Intrepid Travel, we have also been able to shop at several NGOs, meaning that the money we spend goes directly to the people who are making the items and/or towards a charitable organization. I'll have to admit that there is such a plethora of wonderful things that it is sometimes difficult to choose. I've not bought too much for other people, just for lack of space (except for cat and hamster sitters....), so please don't feel bad if you don't get something. Proving, however, that the squeaky wheel always gets the grease, I found a nice shirt for Meron.

Right... things I've done so far:

  • Pet a newborn baby goat in the middle of a dusty trail (I was on horseback);
  • Bonded with a 15-year old girl who was almost sold into prostitution by her family (at one of the charity works that we visited - jewellery - bought lots there!);
  • Taught a 5-minute English class in a Hindi high school;
  • Danced on a beach to traditional music between a brahmin and a servant;
  • Gained 10 pounds (food is excellent);
  • Smoked bidis with old men at a chai stop;
  • Had the most bizarre train ride of my life;
  • Slept in a 16th century palace,
  • Climbed to the top of a minaret of one of the largest mosques in the world;
  • Videotaped a wedding procession;
  • Eaten lasagne (this is a big deal - there is no lasagne in Korea);
  • Sat on the Taj Mahal;
  • Drunk my weight in chai;
  • Seen a tiger pawprint;
  • Spent more time than I thought possible bouncing along dusty roads in a jeep;
  • Watched the sun rise over a small lake as waterbirds flocked and flew around, reflected in the surface;
  • Caught a cold;
  • Watched primary school children do their morning prayers to the goddess of education before beginning their lessons;
  • Been duped into paying too much and/or gotten a good deal;
  • Spent more time wearing a salwar kameez than jeans;
  • Gotten a tan...
And we are only, really, at the half-way point. Tomorrow, we have a camel ride, then this tour ends for Karen and I. Our next stop will probably be Jodhpur for a couple of days. We'll hopefully get a chance to visit a very reputable fortune teller. We will also head up to the "Rat Temple" (Karni Mata), where the sacred rats run around. Should be interesting. After that... we really haven't decided.

Keep leaving comments... I read them whenever I can.

And yes... pictures... there will be TONS!

Friday, January 19, 2007

It's only been a week?

Hello - just left a long comment in the post just before this one.

What can I say? Peacocks sound like meowing cats, our guide looks like he stepped off a Bollywood screen (think HOT) and I spent yesterday evening chatting with an Indian royal (his historic fort is was our hotel).

Food is excellent, dust is incredible. Rather hot in the day and very cool at night.

Every place brings new discoveries - have taken a billion pictures and bought a few things. Have to be careful to keep pack light, as still have 3 weeks to go.

So far, have seen sights of Delhi, Agra, and now Jaipur. Taj Mahal was amazing, but Agra Fort even more so. Some very powerful places here. Yesterday, in a small village, the children ran up to us asking "one photo!", then they would pose, standing very still. As a village that is relatively untouched by tourists, they didn't ask for money or candy, just wanted to have their pictures taken. Wow.

Will check e-mail whenever possible.

Namaste.

Friday, January 12, 2007

A Passage to India

Began my day with a nice chat with Meron, who entertained me with such nuggets as "The biggest cockroaches I ever saw were in India." Spent the rest of the day procrastinating, then took a nap, then accidentally set Mr Shane loose in my apartment, then sort of started packing a bit, then procrastinated some more. Have finally given up and will pack tomorrow morning instead.

If I can, I will update from India. If not.... see you in a month!!!!!

Thursday, January 11, 2007

PANIC!!!

What should one bring if one is going to India for a month?

And wherever did I put those super-important documents that I absolutely need to bring with me?

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Jakob and Esau


Well, they seem to be best friends. It occurred to me that Jakob, being a very young orphan, never had a chance to "play" with another cat. I think this could explain his behaviour problems, at least in part.

In about two hours, I will be taking Esau to the vet's to drop him off. As much as I'd love to keep him, the timing is wrong. Also, he has a few possible homes. He will just have to wait a month (!) until someone can take him (most of my friends are on vacation at the moment).

Jakob and Esau have been running back and forth in my apartment like a herd of buffalo all morning (keeping in mind that "morning" began at 5 am). I would not want to be the person who lives below me.

Tomorrow, Jakob goes to Cassandra's for the time that I am in India.

Tuesday, January 09, 2007

Cat Lady




I guess I just attract them.

Last night, coming back from Tae Kwon Do, a kitten ran past me and under a parked car. When I knelt down to see him better, he walked over to me, climbed into my arms, snuggled up against me and started purring.

Yeah, okay, what would you do?

By doing a google search for "Jakob's brother", I've come up with the (temporary) rather Biblical name of Esau for him (not sure how to pronounce that, but have been calling him "Ee-saw"). I've got folks interested in adopting him, but the timing is just all wrong: Everyone, including me, is either on vacation or heading out very soon.

Jakob and Esau, unlike their Biblical counterparts, are getting along quite well. I had the fun experience of being a kitty sandwich last night, with one orange Korean street cat on either side of me (Why are they all orange? Are there no cats of other colours but orange tabby or white with grey spots?).

For now, I think Esau is just happy to be off the streets.

Monday, January 08, 2007

Songgwangsa in the Snow






While Canada seems to be heating up, winter is alive and well in Suncheon. For my last weekend here before leaving for India, I dragged Jessica out to Songgwangsa (Temple). As it snowed all day on Saturday, we figured (correctly) that we'd be in for a treat: A Temple in the Snow.

Songgwangsa is further away than Seonamsa, but I've been to Seonamsa about a million times, including twice in the past month. I was excited to get to Songgwangsa again, as it is a more brightly painted temple, even though the bus ride out there is a bit daunting (more than an hour long and rather treacherous - our bus passed an 18-wheeler on a curve, wet roads etc). There is also a small museum with Buddhist relics that have survived Japanese invasions, the Korean war and the ravages of time. The highlight for me is always the Thousand Buddhas: a small side temple with a thousand (?) statues inside. Look closely, each (dusty) statue has a different face.

The whole day was great, even though I was so tired that I was having a hard time completing sentences. I've been super busy these past few weeks (both working and playing a bit hard), and I think it is catching up on me. To make matter worse, Shidae apartments saw fit to cut off my heat this weekend (late paying a bill), and I can't get my boiler to fire up again.

Luckily, I am not teaching this week, which will give me ample time to figure out how to mime "Who the hell cuts off someone's heat without warning in the middle of winter?" to Shidae Apartment Services, and finally pack for India.

Oh, and before I forget: I got my first "injury" at Tae Kwon Do. We were practicing kicks and the targets flew back and hit me in the face. Yes, I cried like a little girl, but I am much better now.

Thursday, January 04, 2007

Countdown to India

So, part of my preparations for the upcoming trip to India (only 9 days left before we leave!) is taking an anti-Malarial drug called Larium. Just take a look at this list of side-effects, and be fore-warned that if any of you get a somewhat delusional phonecall or e-mail from me tonight (help help my apartment is full of purple gremlins and they are all out to get me...), this is probably the reason...

The side effects of taking Larium include:
  • nausea;
  • bad dreams;
  • difficulty sleeping;
  • hallucinations (visual and aural);
  • severe anxiety;
  • paranoia;
  • depression;
  • unusual behaviour;
  • feeling disoriented;
Should be an interesting evening....

Tuesday, January 02, 2007

What a Weekend!

A few images from the weekend:


Lazy mornings, with Stu and Jakob both having their ability to remain awake stolen by a sunbeam.


Ice skating! Jessica, Amy and Nicola strike a pose on the ice. This fun afternoon was followed by my first ever visit to a Korean bath house. It's similar to ice skating, minus the skates, the clothes, and the frozen water. Just add a green tea bath, a salt sauna and various pools full of other naked folks.


Temple visit - Seonamsa. View from under the dragon bridge.


Is there anything better than men who do dishes? Max and Stu help with dishes after a veritable feast prepared by yours truly in my galley-like kitchen. If only Steve had stopped by to vacuum...


Ringing in the New Year with champagne and dancing on the roof.